Without a knowledge of the Law of Attraction, and without a conscious
awareness of what you are doing with your own vibrational point of
attraction, it is understandable why you would attempt to control the
circumstances that surround you. But you cannot control the many circumstances that surround you.
However, once you learn about the Law of Attraction, and once you are
aware of the way your thoughts feel, you will never again feel fear about unwanted things jumping into your experience. You will understand that nothing can jump into your experience without your invitation. Since there is no assertion in this attraction-based Universe, if you do not achieve vibrational harmony with it, it cannot come to you; and unless you do achieve vibrational harmony with it, it cannot come to you.
- Excerpted from the book ‘Ask and it is Given’ by Abraham-Hicks.