I gotta stop doing that thing that keeps me from being ready? You know talking about the absence of what you want. That’s that thing that you do that keeps you from being ready. You don’t mean to but you keep practicing the absence of what you want, and you gotta cut that out. Well that means I have no friends left. Cause that’s pretty much what we all talk about. Can’t watch television, that’s what they talk about. So what do I do? First just accept that what you want is there, and that all you have to do is prepare yourself vibrationally and just like water flows downstream it will begin showing itself into your experience, and then try just a little bit some of the things that we will be talking about today and watch how some of those things that have been holding out begin coming in, and as you acknowledge hmm. I can see how my deliberate effort, we use that word very softly. My deliberate focus, my deliberate caring about feeling good so I deliberately contoured my thoughts into more general thoughts that felt better I can see how this manifestation is a direct response of that. A direct response.